In this world of expensive gadgets, Moms (and Dads) may feel pressured to keep up and buy their kids all the latest things. Plus, who doesn’t love to see their child’s face light up as they open up something they’ve really wanted?!! Well, I want to challenge Moms to remember to include the simple things of life as “presents” too - I often think they are more valuable than the electronic devices.
One thing we started doing when our girls were little was walking. Each night after dinner, we would set out as a family and enjoy the new surprises in creation that God showed us - many weren’t there the night before! What a perfect way to teach colors, shapes, and science (ok, a little plug from the former Kindergarten teacher) as you stroll along. Sometimes we would go to a park and after the girls played on the equipment, we would walk in that new neighborhood. Or, sometimes they rode their bikes. As they got older, we added a family dog to the mix and that was good for all of us to get out in the fresh air.
An added bonus was during the teenage years. It’s much less threatening for your teenager to share what’s going on at school or in their group of friends when you are walking side by side and not staring them in the face asking about school! As we would make our way through the subdivision, the girls would share about not being picked for something they had hoped for, or how a girlfriend had hurt their feelings. It provided a safe environment for letting out their feelings. Of course, it got harder to do as the girls became more involved in extracurricular activities, but you can usually fit in a Sunday afternoon stroll!
Give your child a gift today and take a walk!
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